Wednesday, 24 August 2016

BDSM is about,,,,,,

What is BDSM?

BDSM is about Honesty.
-Being honest about what we are into,
-Being honest in what we want out of BDSM
-Being honest in what we wish to try
- Being honest with our past
- Being honest enough to swallow our pride if we screwed up

BDSM is about Communication
- Communicate our needs, wants and desires
- Communicate our limits
- Communicate our intentions
- Communicate when we are wanting something different

BDSM is about Trust
- Trust your partner with your life and well being
- Trust that we will not joke about or out each other
- Trust that we are being honest with each other at all times
- Trust that our partner will not abuse our relationship for their own motivation

BDSM is about Respect
- Respect that our limits are there for a reason,
- Respect that we all have some baggage,
- Respect that there are things that may come up,
- Respect that others may not have the same views,
- Respect other lifestyles and kinks if they are not our own

By Caitlin Boeing

Wednesday, 17 August 2016

What I would give ...

I always have had to be strong, feminine but strong, and it tires me at times, I can get very anxious, I hide it well, but it comes on me like an express train, one minute I am calm the next I am panicking and cant breathe, pains in my chest and my eyes wide.  What I would give for someone to lean on that was stronger than I, more able than I and wiser than I.

Life as a single parent, can be tough, It has made me hard and cynical even, often the bitch rises in me, the lioness ready to roar.  What I would give for a Lion of a man.

Being intelligent can mean I am confident and independent in thoughts and word.  I can have a sharp tongue, and can be very willful and if I am honest a bit bratty (I have not until recently considered myself a brat, but on honest reflection I can see I am at times.  What I would give to have that brat tamed.

Assignment - Punishment Cards

1.  Lecture
i hate these, the rail against my inner core - i have to fight the deep desire to argue back, to defend myself, and yet ultimately i have to face my transgressions honestly
2.  Corner Time
since i find it very difficult to sit or stand still for any length of time. This would be seriously tedious and drive me crazy very easily
3.Corner Time Extra
in addition to normal corner time, i read somehwhere that the Dom can place a coin or similar on the wall and tie his sub’s hands, she must hold the coin there with her nose if it falls then they must be punished further.
4. Gag
i am used to being verbally free to argue my case, to defend myself and the thought of being gagged as a punishment is not one i would like
5. Eye Contact
To be forced to make eye contact or not to make eye contact is one that makes me deeply nervous.  Eyes and looking into someones eyes represents respect, equality and submission and repentance. It makes me emotionally face up to “stuff”
6. Collar
To have the privilege of wearing Master’s collar removed for a period must be very upsetting, I remember when my sister had to hand over her talisman and how upset she was - i wouldn’t like to feel that way,  
7. Restricted from Scene
the thought of being forced to watch my sister serves You Master, during a scene, while i myself am not allowed this privilege. would be very painful
8. Writing Essays About...
Without a doubt one of the worst punishments, totally tedious and stressful
9.  Writing lines
Apart from pi i haven’t heard any other sub say they like lines. i hated them as a girl, and i would consider them a punishment.
10. Shaving
Bae’s Master stopped her from shaving as a punishment, its been so long since i didn’t shave, it would seem wrong, and i know she didnt like it one bit, so i think this would be a punishment
11. Crawling
the slave/sub not permitted to walk upright, and must crawl.
12. The Crop
there is a HUGE difference to a punishment spanking and an erotic one - counting the strikes too
13. Restrictions - Computer
To be restricted from personal use of the computer, no social media, surfing etc
14. Rice
Kneeling on rice for a set amount of time, say 30 minutes.
15. Unpleasant Chores
Cleaning the oven, toilets, carpets… something mind numbing, gives time to reflect upon the incident which gave rise to the punishment
16. Sleeping on the Floor
Reinforces the submissive state, and puts the submissive in their place, by removing privileges which are everyday for vanilla relationships
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17. No Internet
After the past few days, with not being able to get onto the PC and read/write and answer emails, do assignments and diary believe me this is punishment :(
18 Cold Showers
Urgh, I hate cold showers, so to be doused in cold water for a few minutes to cool off would not be pleasant at all, this was something that was done in my boarding school as a punishment.
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19. Begging
Makes me want to cry just thinking of being forced to beg for anything.
20. Public Apology
The realisation that I have messed up is bad enough - to apologise privately is one thing, but to
21. Eating out of a Bowl
Not easy to do, degrading being reduced to an animal
22. Public Spanking
Very embarrassing, humiliating
23. Foot/Feet Spanking
My feet are very sensitive and reading soft’s account in her diary scare the begeebers out of me
24. Belt Spanking
Brings up awful memories, although the thought is arousing the reality isnt.
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25. Flogging
Past the point of being pleasurable, along with the guilt and knowledge that I messed up and displeased you
26. Refusal
not being permitted to have an orgasm.
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27. Forced Orgasm
Nothing to do with pleasure, everything to do with being controlled and dominated, and punished and humiliated
28. Displaying
It is very humiliating to have to display your most private parts especially with the added knowledge of wrong-doing
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29. Spanking with a Cane
Past the point of being pleasurable, along with the guilt and knowledge that I messed up and displeased you
30. Punishment Sex
the guilt and knowledge that I messed up and displeased you, as well as being penetrated and vulnerable.
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31. Public Display
Photos or videos being made public as a punishment would be unbearable under some circumstances
32. Pegs
is there any more to be said

Essay Assignment - The Art of Fellatio

The Art Of Fellatio

"Great sex will get your car note paid, but great head will get you a house."

Fellatio, head, blowjob and in tantra it is called “honouring the lingham” There are many names for the act that most men LOVE., It is apparently one of mens favourite “things”,  I have had a lot of quite frank conversations with some of my friends regarding this essay and I was surprised at how the responses, all had done it, some still did, most did it begrudingly, a few liked doing it but not the swallowing part and only me and one other said they enjoyed everything about it.

There is something about the act of fellatio, that allows a man to express his masculinity and dominance. and personally i believe that giving to a man by licking and sucking his cock to orgasm, is one of the most powerful ways we give not simply physical pleasure but psychological pleasure too as its also a sign of our acceptance of and submission of and to the receiver.

Giving a blowjob offers us the opportunity for a whole new level of pleasure, and should not be looked upon as a chore, it should be a pleasurable experience for both those involved.  

It helps to have lots of saliva, to lick the shaft up and down, to flick the tongue over the sensitive frenulum and to get it all wet and messy.  

I love to form the “O” shape with the mouth, as i take the penis into my mouth, swirling my tongue around the tip while stroking the shaft with my hands, synchornising with my mouth, while maybe massaging the sensitive balls softly at the same time, giving a very gentle squeeze and stroking the prostate area while sucking and licking seems to give some men a lot of pleasure.

It is important to pay attention to the whole cock, not just the head. using the tongue as well as suction from the mouth. Just as good is to alternate speed when, focusing the mouth on the head, and over the rim of the penis.  Some like tight suction and others not so, some like it slow and others prefer fast, nearly all like it messy and noisy, and anything else which shows them the giver is getting as much plkeasrure as they are.

Another deeply arousing thing for me, nevermind the man is to look into his eyes, to see his reactions, feel his cock twitching, hear him talk dirty or just moan and growl, is amazing, to have a man hold on for dear life, and grip your hair while urging you further is very hot.

Taking the cock deep into the mouth and past the point of gagging, seems to be good for lots of men, not all time just sometimes.

A powerful sign of acceptance is showing the man that him coming in your mouth is your top priority, and to swallow his cum seems to mean a lot to many men and some women too, it is important to remember that when he does start to come not to stop and  suck until he's completely drained..

And always swallow with a smile. :)

Essay Assignment - The Art of Cunnilingus

The Art of Cunnilingus

“When a woman is romantically subdued, all she does at that moment is under the influence of her desires.” ― Michael Bassey Johnson

For the most part, and personally speaking cunnilingus (oral sex for women) is something that needs slowly building up to, it's all about teasing, and taking it slowly.

Lots of kissing and skin contact first, before slowly going south. Taking the time to get there is important for me, since simply just opening my legs doesn't do it.

Begin gradually, with breath and one long lick with a broad tongue, before slowly making circles around my clitoris with your tongue. The movements need to be slow and steady, staying with the same rhythm, using very light circles, slowly does it
Using very light circles, pretending the tongue is almost like a feather when you first begin. - Make sure to use light slow circles.  As the pleasure increases...begin to flick the hood of the clitoris like you are teasing it.
A woman’s clitoris has over 6,000 nerve endings making it undoubtedly the most sensitive part of a woman's body. Not always easy to find, hidden between the sex lips, which are themselves full of nerve endings and also swell during sex. the opening of the vagina is also very sensitive, as well as the area around the anus, so being gentle is a must.
Its important to continue tracing circles, every so often flicking the clitoris gradually doing it more often, it's at this point i usually get wriggly and need to move my body especially when the person giving is able to keep the same rhythm.
After a while its good to place one or two fingers inside the vagina and begin stimulating the G-Spot, I also love breast stimulation during oral sex.  
I asked a lesbian friend for advice on this essay and she pointed out the following tips:
Tease, tease, tease. and more tease, play with her body before you go for the direct stimulation. Lick, kiss and nibble the stomach, thighs, and outer sex lips. Make sure you use your entire face to play with her, your nose, lips, teeth, chin, tongue and you can even use longer hair to tickle her gently. Circle around her clit and vagina using different pressures and speeds, remembering to penetrate her with your tongue. Breathe and blow warm air above her vagina but never directly inside as it can cause an air embolism, which i remember reading about in the “Joy of Sex” years ago.  She says “always listen to your partner. and watch how she moves. Have fun and don't forget the only way you know if you're doing it right is to ask”....
I agree with all of that - i went looking for more info and found the Kama Sutra has lots to say:
  • The Quivering Kiss: “With delicate fingertips, pinch the arched lips of her house of love very, very slowly together, and kiss them as though you kissed her lower lip”
  • The Circling Tongue: “Now spread, indeed cleave asunder, that archway with your nose and let your tongue gently probe her ‘yoni' (vagina), with your nose, lips, and chin slowly circling”
  • The Tongue Massage: “Let your tongue rest for a moment in the archway to the flower bowed Lord's temple before entering to worship vigorously, causing her seed to flow”
  • Sucked: “Next, fasten your lips to hers and take deep kisses from this lovely one, your beloved, nibbling at her and sucking hard at her clitoris”
  • Sucked Up: “Cup and lift her buttocks, let your tongue-tip probe her navel, slither down to rotate skillfully in the archway of the love-god's dwelling and lap her love-water”
  • Stirring: “Stirring the root of her thighs, which her own hands are gripping and holding widely apart, your fluted tongue drinks at her sacred spring”
  • Sucked Hard: “Place your darling on a couch, set her feet to your shoulders, clasp her waist, suck hard and let your tongue stir her overflowing love-temple”

Tuesday, 16 August 2016

Story - Caught...

This is another story about a fantasy i had the other night while playing with my horny self....

For Sft ;)

Caught …...

It was one of those rare days where both Hope and Lola were alone, their Master was out on some errand or another, leaving them to get on, do their chores and enjoy what was left of the weekend.

The sun was high and after a light meal, with some wine, the conversation had turned very flirty and some hot and filthy conversation was shared by the two poly sisters.  

A few times, Hope had brushed over her leg with her hand, or touched her face.  Each time lightening shot through Lola’s body, a warmth flooding through her to her core. She didn't consider herself bisexual, but there was something about Hope that caused electricity to surge through her.  She had fantasies but had never acted on them, yet she trusted Hope and felt that she was safe with her.

Lola was about to pour another drink when she sighed and decided against it...the lustful, horny feelings she was experiencing were most likely down to the small amount of alcohol she had been consuming in the heat and sun and maybe this was her body’s way of telling her to stop.

Hope had gone to take a call leaving Lola alone with her decidedly kinky thoughts.  She held her breath in anticipation as she heard footsteps approaching the lounge door. She chose to stand by the sofa for some safety. Looking out into the garden, watching the leaves on the tree dance and flutter in the soft gentle breeze.

"So... “ Hope said, softly, breaking Lola’s train of thought and making her jump slightly.  “Are we going to stop messing about and do something about how we feel and what we desire Lola?"   Her friend said to her with a smile and softness in her eyes, as she crossed the room to stand behind her.

Lola closed her eyes and tears welled up, she so desperately wanted to admit to her feelings, her desires and her fantasies, but she felt so afraid and more than a little confused.

She took a deep breath and sighed "Yes but I am scared Hope, really scared”.

Hope moved closer, and lifted her hair, kissing her neck, her hot breath rushing across Lola’s skin, making her shiver with excitement and anticipation. Her womb clenching, and a fresh wave of moisture flooding her sex.

“You don't need to be scared, I can lead you, I can show you, let me…”

“Oh God, Hope” Lola moaned breathless as Hope began to lift her skirt and kiss her neck, lightly, nipping and she went.

Lola held her breath as Hope leaned into her causing her to bend  slightly, Hope slid her hand down and across the round cheeks of Lola’s bottom, softly yet determinedly, pushing her legs open enough for her hand to find her sex, her fingers discovering the moisture, Lola’s body betraying her nerves.  “You dirty girl” Hope giggled in Lola’s ear.  “You want me as bad as I want you don’t you” she said as she fingered Lola’s hot and wet pussy, sliding her fingers through her wet folds.  Lola was shocked to find she was so close already, “Oh yes” she breathed harshly, her breaths coming raggedly and her hips grinding against Hopes fingers, Hope’s thumb rubbing her clit in smooth and deliberate circles.

“Bend over Lola, now!” Hope said firmly as she pushed Lola over the sofa gently, Lola obeyed and leaned over the sofa, her hands resting on the seat cushions.  

Hope, groaned at the feel of Lola’s tight wet pussy, slowly pushing inside her with two fingers, Lola gasped with pleasure, feeling the lust for Hope running through her, she mewled as Hope moved them rhythmically in and out of her wanton core.

Hope withdrew her fingers and moaned shamelessly as she licked her essence from them, the taste of Lola almost her undoing.  “Stay”, she said just as breathlessly “just stay like that, I need to taste you” Hope growled in Lola’s ear, almost feral.

Hope knelt behind Lola, parting her plump round ass cheeks with eager hands.  “I want to see you, show me your pussy girl”

Lola blushed and bent over the sofa a bit more, and gasped as Hope made one long, soft lick from the top of her shaven, smooth pussy, to the opening of her sex, inserting her tongue before licking her again with firmer strokes, circling her clit, driving her wild, her hips bucking involuntarily grinding her pussy against Hope’s mouth, squirming as Hope’s expert tongue and fingers toyed and played with her.  Her pussy clenched as a dull throb started in her womb and her body ignited.  Clutching the sofa cushions with her hands, she gasped as she fell over the edge, crying out as she came loud and hard.

The door shut loudly making the two women freeze.  “Oh MY dear girls, is THIS what happens when I leave you for the afternoon?”

Lola felt Hope stiffen at the sound of His voice, and she blushed, trying to straighten.

“Stay !” He ordered, I want to watch my filthy sluts enjoy themselves, He said as He pulled Hope up gently but firmly by the hair, giving Lola’s ass a firm hard spank at the same time.  She gasped at the sharp smack to her behind, not daring to move, she was locked in position as He rubbed her pussy with His hand, “Hmmm you are dripping Lola, who’d have thought you were such a dirty girl, did you enjoy Hope, licking your pussy, making you come?”

“Yes Sir” she admittedly shyly, her words coming out in a breathless murmur. She was afraid, she was very afraid, for Hope and for herself, what would Master do?

“I am going to teach you both, that ONLY with my permission do you play without me, with each other, with ANYONE” Master spoke firmly, calmly, but His ire was palpable.  “I think you both need reminding who you belong to” He growled angrily.

Master led both of them around the sofa and ordered them to kneel, while He unbuckled His belt, Lola shivered at the sound, a new wave of moisture flooding her core.  She loved that sound, the leather riding through the loops of His trousers and the clunking of the buckle.  She looked at Hope next to her on her knees, head bowed.  Would He punish them with His belt, the thought both scared her and thrilled her.

Tears welled in her eyes, for Hope and for herself, they had acted without His permission, for their own pleasure, not for His, as was their place.  They had displeased their Master and she felt so sad that they had, yet so happy she and Hope had finally crossed that line and shared their feelings of lust and affection.  

Hope and Lola listened with heads bowed as Master unzipped his trousers and released His hard, raging cock.  

“Master, please it was me who pushed Lola”, Hope said urgently, beseeching Him for mercy.

“Oh I know my pet, I know you, you are mine, you are a filthy fuck doll and what you have both done  is what you wanted and yet what I desire, BUT, you have forgotten who you are and more importantly you have both forgotten who I AM” Master said stroking his fingers along the length of his cock.

He stood in front of both his sluts, looking down with dark, stern eyes. Leaning over to wrap his hands in their long hair, he pulled them both towards Him, towards His now hard, angry and glistening erection.  

Their mouths so close to his manhood, their mouths watering, they both looked up at Him with pleading eyes.

“Please Master” Hope said

He looked at Lola and raised an eyebrow at her waiting…

“Please Master” she said breathlessly

He nodded and pulled them closer, until their mouths were either side of his cock and then began to lick up and down his long hard shaft.  “That's it you greedy girls, you know what your mouth is for,”  He growled, “You need to realise that not only do your cunts belong to me, every part of you belongs to me, including and especially your mouths, now suck!”

They devoured Him, so full of lust and heat, so eager to pleasure Him, to serve Him and hopefully shake His displeasure of them.  

Hope and Lola were totally enraptured in their worship of their Masters cock, they licked up and down his shaft, taking it in turns sucking his swollen tip, their lips and tongues touching as they loved every inch of Him, at times, almost kissing.

Master held their hair, and pulled them off Himself, “Kiss” He said firmly, “I want you to kiss each other”.  Lola gulped and looked at Him, again He raised His eyebrow, His Dominance and determination evident.

Hope didn’t hesitate and pulled Lola in for a kiss.  It was heated and full of passion as she slipped her tongue past Lola’s lips.  Lola’s mouth opened and she slipped her tongue across Hope’s bottom lip.  “Yes that’s it” Master growled as they were washed away in a tidal wave of passion and lust. Master threaded his fingers through Hope’s soft blonde hair, and Lola’s black curls as their bodies pressed closer.

Master watched as His girls, became lost in pleasure, totally absorbed in the very kiss He had ordered.  His cock was hard and throbbing and He was becoming lost in lust for His slaves.

“Stop”, He said as He pulled His girls to their feet.  “I need to fuck you” He said as He looked into Hope’s eyes.  Kissing her hard on the mouth.

Hope was lost in her Master's kiss, Lola looking on as He almost devoured her, she never got tired of watching Him bring her sister to submission.  She gasped as He bent Hope over and rammed home, long hard strokes, while pulling Hopes head back with her hair.

“Kiss her” He growled at Lola, while slowing the pace down, driving Himself in and out of Hope’s tight wet cunt.  Lola knelt before her sister and kissed her, while Master fucked her with long hard strokes.

Lola’s tongue was driving into Hope’s mouth, mirroring Master's actions. “Are you wet my pet?” Master asked Lola gently, with a lustful smile.  “Yes Master I am” Lola whispered breathlessly as she nipped Hope’s bottom lip.  

“Show me” Master said, “Display your pussy for your sister and your Master to see” Lost in lust and
submission Lola laid back on the sofa and opened her legs, she ran her hands along her thighs and up to her shaven pussy, she opened wider, the lips of her soaking cunt spread for them both to see.

“Master” Hope cried, so obviously close the edge, the need in her evident in her plea.

“Don’t you DARE come, my slut. Don't you dare” Master growled.

He motioned Hope over so her face was so close to Lola’s mound, she could smell her sisters need.  She looked into Lola’s eyes, both of them lost in lust and subspace.

“Stroke Lola’s pussy,, she would like that wouldn’t you my filthy girl” He asked.  Lola blushed and gasped, “Yes Master I would if it pleases You”.  Hope rubbed her fingers in Lola’s hot wet sex, circling her clit.

“I want you to lick your sister Lola” Master ordered.  “Lay under her and lick her while I fuck her” He instructed.

Lola turned and laid back her head hanging slightly off the sofa, and Master pushed Hope over her while He pushed His hard cock deep inside her forcing her forward over Lola, so her pussy was just at the right place.  Lola looked at her Master, He smiled and nodded His head with a dark and lust filled look.

A soft mewling noise escaped Lola’s lips, the first taste of Hope on her tongue was almost her
undoing. Her sister was dripping and tasted so good, honey flowed as she licked up and down Hopes wet folds as Master pounding into her, her tongue danced on Hope’s clit, in long circular motions, her whole body aching for release. "That is it. Just like that MY dirty slut, you like your sisters taste I can tell, just as she liked yours.”

Master put His hand between Lola’s legs and pushed them apart, “Show me” He growled, Lola obeyed opening her legs wide for her Masters inspection.  “You are wet my slut, does MY cunt need some attention too?”

Lola moaned her plea as she continued to lick her sisters cunt, lapping at her honey from the bottom of her pussy, along Master’s cock, up and around her clit, she gasped as Master inserted two fingers inside her, finger fucking her hard, “Master” she begged, as she nearly fell over the edge. “No, my pets not yet, don't you dare come either of you, do you hear me?”

Master fucked them hard, his cock in one and his fingers in another, slapping them both hard on the ass and inner thighs, with His belt,   “Who do you belong to, my sluts, whose cunts are these!” He asked them hard as He slapped them with His belt again harder.

Hope and Lola both cried out almost in unison “Yours Master, these are Your cunts, they belong to You”

He spoke calmly but fully in His authority “Don’t you EVER forget it again!” He growled as He picked up the pace, fucking them hard and rough with his cock and his fingers.

“No Master” they both cried, tears flowing from their eyes and sobs coming from their throats

“Good girls, come for me now, come for me” He growled as they both fell over the edge and cried out in ecstasy, both of them milking His fingers and cock while gasping “Thank you Master” as He filled one of those cunts He owned with His hot, thick seed.