Wednesday, 17 August 2016

Essay Assignment - The Art of Cunnilingus

The Art of Cunnilingus


“When a woman is romantically subdued, all she does at that moment is under the influence of her desires.” ― Michael Bassey Johnson


For the most part, and personally speaking cunnilingus (oral sex for women) is something that needs slowly building up to, it's all about teasing, and taking it slowly.

Lots of kissing and skin contact first, before slowly going south. Taking the time to get there is important for me, since simply just opening my legs doesn't do it.

Begin gradually, with breath and one long lick with a broad tongue, before slowly making circles around my clitoris with your tongue. The movements need to be slow and steady, staying with the same rhythm, using very light circles, slowly does it
Using very light circles, pretending the tongue is almost like a feather when you first begin. - Make sure to use light slow circles.  As the pleasure increases...begin to flick the hood of the clitoris like you are teasing it.
A woman’s clitoris has over 6,000 nerve endings making it undoubtedly the most sensitive part of a woman's body. Not always easy to find, hidden between the sex lips, which are themselves full of nerve endings and also swell during sex. the opening of the vagina is also very sensitive, as well as the area around the anus, so being gentle is a must.
Its important to continue tracing circles, every so often flicking the clitoris gradually doing it more often, it's at this point i usually get wriggly and need to move my body especially when the person giving is able to keep the same rhythm.
After a while its good to place one or two fingers inside the vagina and begin stimulating the G-Spot, I also love breast stimulation during oral sex.  
I asked a lesbian friend for advice on this essay and she pointed out the following tips:
Tease, tease, tease. and more tease, play with her body before you go for the direct stimulation. Lick, kiss and nibble the stomach, thighs, and outer sex lips. Make sure you use your entire face to play with her, your nose, lips, teeth, chin, tongue and you can even use longer hair to tickle her gently. Circle around her clit and vagina using different pressures and speeds, remembering to penetrate her with your tongue. Breathe and blow warm air above her vagina but never directly inside as it can cause an air embolism, which i remember reading about in the “Joy of Sex” years ago.  She says “always listen to your partner. and watch how she moves. Have fun and don't forget the only way you know if you're doing it right is to ask”....
I agree with all of that - i went looking for more info and found the Kama Sutra has lots to say:
  • The Quivering Kiss: “With delicate fingertips, pinch the arched lips of her house of love very, very slowly together, and kiss them as though you kissed her lower lip”
  • The Circling Tongue: “Now spread, indeed cleave asunder, that archway with your nose and let your tongue gently probe her ‘yoni' (vagina), with your nose, lips, and chin slowly circling”
  • The Tongue Massage: “Let your tongue rest for a moment in the archway to the flower bowed Lord's temple before entering to worship vigorously, causing her seed to flow”
  • Sucked: “Next, fasten your lips to hers and take deep kisses from this lovely one, your beloved, nibbling at her and sucking hard at her clitoris”
  • Sucked Up: “Cup and lift her buttocks, let your tongue-tip probe her navel, slither down to rotate skillfully in the archway of the love-god's dwelling and lap her love-water”
  • Stirring: “Stirring the root of her thighs, which her own hands are gripping and holding widely apart, your fluted tongue drinks at her sacred spring”
  • Sucked Hard: “Place your darling on a couch, set her feet to your shoulders, clasp her waist, suck hard and let your tongue stir her overflowing love-temple”


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